I’ve Been That Girl: The One That Takes him back

He promises to change and promises that he really loves you. You take him back then and everything is good for a week, then it’s back to the same ol’ BS! I’ll tell you a time that I took an ex back and I tried to keep it a secret because I didn’t want to…

How your “type” is keeping you single

Tall, drop dead fine, a nice car, his own place, tattoos would be nice, nice dresser etc. I liked those pretty boys with some hood in them. That was my type. That was also my downfall too. I couldn’t figure out where the hell I was going wrong either! Even when I let go of…

I’ve Been That Girl: “The Tease”

Well, that’s what some men call it when they see a woman dressed in club wear, out with her girlfriends having a good time. I completely disagree. Just because a woman decides that she’s ready to go out with her girlfriends to celebrate a recent breakup from a controlling ass guy and enjoy her newfound…

How My Parents Divorce Affected My Love Life

By: Kindall D. My parents divorced when I was around 12 years old. I was still fairly young but old enough to understand that my parents had not been getting along and that something wasn’t right. I would see them argue and fight all the time. I’ll never forget once witnessing my mama trying to…

My experience with verbal abuse and how I got out

“…You stupid motherf**cker!” I’ll never forgot my ex spitting out those words at me. He had said and done more previously but for some reason, this phrase and incident still sticks out in my mind the most even though it’s been about 7-8 years since it happened. He was on the phone with a customer…

His female best friend

“I DONT believe in opposite sex friends” or “I’M your only female best friend” are things I used to always say and really stand behind; my guy could not have a female friend…at all! Why do us, women often feel this way?Is it jealousy or insecurity? Maybe it’s the guy that can’t be trusted. Maybe…

I’ve Been That Girl: “The Ride or Die Chick”

I remember waiting for an ex for TWO whole years to get out of jail. The prison facility he was in was 5 hours away from me. I would drive there and back in one day just to visit with him for a couple hours. I would do this every two months or so. I…

“Love yourself first” is more than just a cliché phrase.

Being alone and single is not such a bad thing. It’s actually necessary to really know who you are. I know it’s so cliche’ to say, “love yourself first” or “learn to be alone” when you’re newly single but I’m here to actually break down what it means and how it really works. This is…