I’ve Been That Girl: Like SZA on “The Weekend”

“He had a girlfriend already and everything but I was weak as hell…and desperate. I had not learned how to be comfortable by myself yet. I had not learned how to exude self love. I thought I loved myself but the way he seemed to love me felt so much better.”

I’ve Been That Girl: One Of His Many

“We were a part of the world to him that wasn’t damaged like he was.

He saw the good woman in all of us but didn’t know what to do with it.

He just used us to fill a void.”

I’ve Been That Girl: Acting Like The Men That Hurt Me

The tables are turned in this one.
Meet Jennifer Harris who sabotaged a good relationship due to being a damaged, hurting girl hurting others due to her own past pains.

“You go through my phone and feel belittled, less than a man. I mean let’s face it, you are. You keep taking me back you stupid boy.”

I’ve Been That Girl: Focused Only On His Potential

“He had mistakenly sent me the conversation between him and Breshawn. Of course, when I asked about it, he had the perfect excuse explaining that she was his ex that wanted to get back with him since she was now getting a divorce. However, what he was telling me was not matching up with what the emails said.”

Nikki shares how she let her hard love for a man and his potential cloud her judgment causing her a life altering heartbreak. She shares her deep pains in hopes that it will caution other women to not get too caught up in just a man’s potential.

Don’t Settle, You’re NOT Asking For Too Much

Don’t give up on finding Mr. Right. You do not have to apologize by lowering your standards and settling on Mr. Right Now.

“Don’t settle for a man that’s afraid to tell you and show you how he really feels. Quit making excuses for him by thinking that men are incapable of expressing how they feel…If a man is crazy about you and actually cares, he will come out of his comfort zone and show and tell you how he truly feels about you. You’re not asking for too much by wanting a man that’s not afraid to show the world how much you really mean to him.”